Relationship advice
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romance
Romance when used as a tool for deep friendship opens… Relationship & CosequenceAuthor~abiodun durojaye Tiktok@abiduro1instagram @abiodundurojayefacebook @ abi duro Continue reading
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OF YOUR EX AND NEXT
It will of inevitability happen at the infancy of a new relationship… t will of inevitability happen at the infancy of a new relationship, that you will sometimes see your Ex in your Next. Sweetly or hurtfully. In the case of hurt, there would be a relapse in the healing process of PTSD. Although this… Continue reading
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HELL TO HEAVEN
Coming out from a broken relationship needs a process of rehabilitation. A reorientation programme of having to learn to trust, and have faith in people again. Building a renewed sense of Hope. How to express and receive love again. A new way of saying words, and processing words that are said to you without a… Continue reading
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Beware of comfort
That is the crux of the matter as i said previously. Relationship whether intrapersonal or interpersonal is analogous to a pendulum of a clock. it always has to swing toward either of the extreme in a constant motion, it is never static. Whenever it does, as in being static, that signals the insidious gradual deterioration… Continue reading
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Loving relationship – Winning strategy
Loving relationships share the same feature with football. They are both high contact, high impact based. But quite paradoxically winning a football match is more about what you do without the ball, than what you do with the ball. Loving relationships are similar. More about what you do in separation than what you do in… Continue reading
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BREACH OF TRUST IS MURDER
“Murder?? Yes! Murder..Because Trust is the basis of every human endeavour!Like you’ve just been to the kitchen now. Put your fries in the oven. Firstly to get up from bed, you trusted you could. You trusted the oven is doing what it should when you left it. You trusted the lasagne was not poisoned. So… Continue reading
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CONJUGATION
“Is there any rule of communication that surpasses the rule of reaching the listener’s heart!? Certainly none.Except another rule of equal significance.which is that ‘the speaker must dig deep to the inner recesses of his heart to fly his speech’s kite, tied to the string of unpretentious compassion, and from there allow it to surf… Continue reading
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Beware of comfort
That is the crux of the matter as i said previously. Relationship whether intrapersonal or interpersonal is analogous to a pendulum of a clock. it always has to swing toward either of the extreme in a constant motion, it is never static. Whenever it does, as in being static, that signals the insidious gradual deterioration… Continue reading
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WHEN THE COIN DROPS
“It is true that he turned out to be not who you thought he was. What is truer but unknown to you, is that the predicate to that, is your deep, though subtle realisation that you were not who you thought you were. Your realisation and disappointment, and the accompanying hurt is nothing but the… Continue reading
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Of virtue and chivalry
“In the matter of the heart, the woman must not act like a helpless maiden, nor should she be made to feel so. Her virtue, being her most price asset should be freely and willingly given at all times. She must resist the force of impulse, coercive manipulation, of which the consequence is emotional exploitation.… Continue reading
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