Coming out from a broken relationship needs a process of rehabilitation. A reorientation programme of having to learn to trust, and have faith in people again. Building a renewed sense of Hope. How to express and receive love again. A new way of saying words, and processing words that are said to you without a trigger of the past trauma and its associated memories and pathos. New ways of interpreting body language and mannerisms. This period of transition will vary for individuals.
But three important rules will be to ‘Never conduct a new inter-relationship whilst still dealing with the emotional fracture of the old’. The second being to ‘Never get into a relationship with someone who still have the ghost of their old relationship lurking’. An important addition to these is the third, ‘remove yourself from contact with the precipitating factor and/or person’. The third one being an imperative for every rehabilitation process.
Time to love, pamper, party by yourself, with yourself, for yourself. go out and buy yourself love mementos as a present. After all It has always been the Self searching for the Self to love.
Feeling good?! Now take another inter-relationship chance!
Relationship & Consequence
Author~ Abiodun Durojaye
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Heaven and Hell painting (1850) courtesy Octave Tassaert
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